Hey All, I know it is easier said than done when it comes to people being hard on themselves because of a situation that person has been into and along with the emotional and mental chaos that has come with it. I know that we all in this world have our own problems and things that happen in life that we do not like or something went wrong in life and sometimes things do not go as planned, but people need to stop being so hard on themselves. It is so easy to put ones self down, but people need to learn that, things happen and sometimes we cannot control it, but that doesn’t mean that someone has to be so hard on themselves and to stop saying there is no hope, it is never going to happen, good things will never happen to me, I won’t get into a relationship, and then give up and say crazy things. You are only setting yourself up for more disappointment, and you are only hurting yourself when you think negatively and hurt yourself with the words you use among yourself. Don’t do that to yourself. I know sometimes it is easy to talk about it, but where is the action? Take action, do happy things for you, make happy decisions of course with thinking, and do things that will benefit you in the long run.
If you keep on doing this to yourself and if you do not move forward, there can be consequences and you do not want to go through them. What is wrong with who you are? Nothing. Everyone is special in their own ways, but people will never know that because that particular person in your life is always being hard on themselves, and crying, and saying depressive things all the time. Time to snap out of it and time to move forward in life. The past is the past and people should stop being pessimists and start on happy adventures in life. Where do we draw the line? I know sometimes it is hard and there have been terrible times in ones life that can never be the same again, but you can make it the same again with good thoughts about yourself and putting yourself up with people and never telling people you’re not good enough, and that you’re not up to par with anything and that you will never find someone. You will and you will succeed in life, you will do the goodness in your life. You just need to boost yourself with self-confidence, self-esteem and the willingness to move on.
You can’t move on if your always ashamed, if your always in your own world and your own bubble stressing about things that are not even worth your time anymore. You have come this far for a reason and that reason is that life continues, and life goes on. You can’t bring the past back and you can’t turn back time, so might as well as make your time worth while right? Making your life better, happier and doing positive things in life will be the best gift you can ever give yourself. It may take some time, but nothing ever happens overnight. In order to work for your happiness and good things in life, is your willingness to try, give it your best, and you will see the difference in change. Change is good, and life is good, you just haven’t discovered it yet, but you will. You can’t make a colourful happy rainbow without a little rain, and you can’t have sunshine without darkness. Dark times teach us lessons in life and that will turn into sunlight only if you try to do your best to move forward. Move it and move on. Nobody is perfect and nothing is ever a guarantee, which is why you live your life now, and make the best of it because nothing is permanent. We all have to stand up on our own feet and we must strive to be happy always and keep smiling. The world is a better place with you in it and the world is a better place with smiles.
Loving yourself is the best thing you can do, and when you love yourself, everything is possible. Love yourself, Smile, and stop with whatever you are doing to make your life a dark rain storm. After a rainstorm there is sun and life again. Be in the sun and shine bright. Have a positive attitude and go with the flow. All the best!
Nice article..So Inspiring. I really love it. Thank you for sharing..:)
To put it bluntly – Put on your big girl panties, make amends where you need to and get on with your life! Sitting and moping and worrying doesn’t CHANGE A THING!!
Your endless boundless enthusiasm is certainly infectious.
Ironically, I was just telling a friend of mine who likes to talk about his miseries due to his MS that there are people in the world going through much worse than him.
Talin, your words, so timely, genuine and filled with honesty. Thank you for sharing needed inspiration! And honored you are following me. I look forward to reading more of your thoughts……
i love this! im always so very hard on myself. i have very high expectations of how i am and am sure that’s why i have this horrible age complex lol… because i expected to be in a different place in life by now and im not because of the lack of choices i’ve made. it’s all so frustrating. i am trying hard to let go of the past and move forward; to know that if i dwell in the past or focus too much on the future i’ll screw up my present. i was doing better and then have had a few moments recently that forced a little step backwards but this reminds me that i can’t do that. giving up on myself is more harmful than anything else. great post! 🙂
I totally agree, including on the easier said and done part, unfortunately. Good to have reminders like this!
So glad that you are back! I’ve missed your posts! xoxo
Very beauttiful this helped to make my day as I keep creating more Love in my Life. I pray to it that All are Loving themselves more because I believe Love and God (one in the same) is the answer to Everything. Well article and Thanks!
Very well said thank you for saying how someof us truly feel
Nice one Talin. I guess the one constant in life is that others never quite see us how we see ourselves. If your friends start being overly negative to you, you can always change your friends but it’s a bit harder when it’s the little voice in your head! That said, if bad memories come into your mind, you can always put them aside and focus on the more positive ones. That which does not kill you makes you stronger, right?