A lot of the times in life we go through many feelings, emotions, and sometimes we tend to apologize for what we are feeling and telling people our emotions. You have every right to feel what you are feeling, You never have to explain yourself to anybody. Never be ashamed of your feelings. I know they say that you have to express your feelings everytime and tell people exactly how you feel, however sometimes you cannot control feelings, you cannot explain the way you feel due to a certain situation. I know no matter what you have to tell someone how you feel, and not keep anything inside of you, but some circumstances say otherwise. It depends on the person and whom you can confide into easily.
If you keep on living your life on other peoples terms and the way they want you to feel, the way they want you to live your life always telling you what to do, forcing, commanding you to do something is not somebody you want to associate with. Find the path and the people who can relate to you, do what you feel is right for you. Sometimes you need to get out from the norm, and do what is best for you. If you keep on living your life to please others, to always try and impress others, to always keep proving yourself and working hard for other peoples approval, you are not going to get anywhere in life and all you are going to do is just live for other people.
Sometimes you need to put your foot down and say, okay enough is enough. People talk so much about you and your life, gossip, spread rumors, put words in your mouth and what you should do with your life, however sometimes people need to look at themselves in the mirror first before they point fingers, criticize and belittle you. Some people have nothing better to do, than talk smack about other people, when they need to sort out their life and what they need to do. Remember nobody full knows you and about your personal life and what you are going through, and you never have to explain yourself to nobody.
Ignore people who talk so much bogus about you, and ignore people and block them out of your life. Life is too short. Be happy, be you, live your life on your own terms and your own comfort, and do not worry about anything else. People are always going to judge and point fingers. Don’t let it affect you and your life, well-being and who you are. True, compassionate and understanding people will be there for you every step of the way without explaining yourself. Remember others opinions of you, do no matter. Its how you make an opinion of yourself that matters. As long as you feel good about yourself and bring yourself up with good thoughts, confidence, the way you are is what matters the most.
People will always do and say mean things, but never let that take control of yourself.
I have realized a lot of things in the last little while, that you cannot expect people to understand you, your feelings and be on the same page as you, not everybody will be your friend and agree with you. I recommend that people should never stop being themselves, be who you are, feel what you want to feel. In the end we are all human beings in this world, we do make mistakes, we do wrong in social issues, we tend to sometimes associate with people whom we always have to try to fit in, do things to stay in the loop, however you never need to try to fit in, try so hard, and try to stand out, because there will be people who will appreciate you for you and there will be people who will love and cherish you and the memories shared and will share in the present and the future.
Wishing you the best with everything and remember never apologize for the way you feel. Always be thankful and just go on with life. There is only so much you can do and life will never give you more than you can handle.
Wow, what a timely post, very eloquent… =)
Yes! Just try writing if you want to live life on your own terms!
Thanks for sharing your thoughts; Everything was so on point. It’s weird how easily some people will try to tap into the lives of others to deliberately zap away their happiness. However, there’s also beauty in knowing, we have that “choice” to keep our power or not allow it. It helps to condition your mind set against such and reading this post is a great start. I think you touched all bases …Loved it!
Daring to be different is often so tough.. Especially when there is a room for of energy zappers.. But standing guard and being yourself is the most rewarding in that room.
There is a design and a flow, the universe takes care of it. We don’t have to feel the weight of the world on us.
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Thanks to another blogger for this reminder.
Thank you , this was a wonderful post to read. I will enjoy following you. 🙂
Thank you, it is so true, always be yourself.
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This is so true, always be yourself.
Very true. And it was like we found someone who thinks alike. It was like reading our own mind. Your blog is awesome and thoughts are so similar to ours. Thanks for your visit! 🙂
You’re an amazing role model!!! I love this.
I’m all about putting my foot down for what I believe in. Great post! 🙂 I will stay tuned in.
Very well said.
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People who rain on your parade, pee on your cornflakes, I call leeches or “soul suckers” for that’s what they do/try to do…leech your positive energy due to their misery. It’s sad really. I try to practice compassion for people like this, sending them white light in hopes they find it one day. Keeps me from taking on their “stuff”. Doesn’t always werks lol we all have strong feelings in response to such toxic behavior…however I always eventually find a place of forgiveness ☺ and let it go. I love this post. Well said. I shall enjoy following your blog. Many thanks for following mine ☺ peace, love & light, jules
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Thanks, for this, I needed to be reminded of this today. ❤ :~)