Recently, I have been thinking a lot about life, where I stand and the time of whom I spend it with and among doing things for myself and the betterment of me and my future. Life is tough sometimes and we have to find ourselves and look forward to new beginnings and a whole new perspective on life to close a chapter and begin a new one. I have spent a lot of time in the last few weeks just analyzing everything going on. You how they say everything happens for a reason. I truly believe in that.
I am very excited and enthusiastic about what my future holds from now. As I had stated a few blog posts ago on how I am getting back into the Armenian community, how I am joining in on events, getting to know people, making new friends, new beginnings. in the last couple of weeks or more, I have been going to a local Coffee shop and I met some really nice Armenian people who go there and every time I go, they are so welcoming, they say hello, and automatically I join them. It feels so great to be there with them and enjoy my couple of hours with them. We laugh, talk, and do our daily ramblings about our lives. It feels incredible.
I have been so bullied in my life when I was growing up in school from when I was in Kindergarten, almost everyone looked at me differently, which to this day I cannot understand the reasons why and with that result, you find it more difficult to trust people, you second guess, and still think everyone is against you. It is extremely difficult sometimes to find closure from unfortunate events that occurred in life, however you think to yourself, how much longer can you do this for? How much more of this can I absolutely take?
Sometimes you have to let go of those unfortunate feelings you have and move forward in life. The only way to find closure, to get a new perspective on life is to move on and to wake up to smell the roses. Take some time for yourself and think things through and just go with the flow. Sometimes you feel like you always need people around you, but you need to spend time alone by yourself to fully think things through.
As long as you have very few friends and your family to count on, the foundation and beam of support from loved ones and those whom you can absolutely trust, confide in is all you really need. When you feel that you no longer second guess things and finally find peace and harmony, everything else will fall into place. Not only socially, but for success, a career choice and so much more. I realize that life is too short, and its really important to always think forward and leave the past where it is. I am learning to never let the past define me of who I am today.
I am absolutely positive and happy about the new findings in life and I look forward to the many plans and goals I have made to achieve them, to strive for success, to get out there and make myself known, to do many things that I have put on hold. I am confident and optimistic about everything. I cannot wait to share it with you all and update on my success and hard work that has taken me to climb that ladder once and again.
Everyone can contribute something wonderful and worthwhile in life. Sometimes circumstances and things come up last minute that it may take longer, but however long it may take, do it. There is no time limit. Its what you feel and how you feel is the importance of everything. Have you recently taken a new perspective on life? Did you start your new beginning? How is it going? Best wishes to you and may you find your calling. What is your story?
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It really is refreshing to read a post so optimistic. I used to be a dreamer, dreaming and Unrealistically planning. But now, my new perspective is, setting my mind to a few real goals and doing my best towards achieving them. I enjoyed reading this. 🙂
This echoes so much what I’ve been feeling lately. Leave the past in the past, enjoy the moment, that has been my policy the last few months,n
Beautiful words – thanks for sharing xx
I’m in a place where I feel like I am standing still-letting my life pass me by. It was nice to read your thoughts and think that maybe it is time to get going on my own life.
Good for you reviewing things and getting out there meeting people and deciding to trust again. I’m giving you a wool wool over here!
Best wishes in your endeavors! You have an excellent attitude.
Good to hear that you are relearning to define yourself as someone with a purpose in life. The past three years in ly life has been about redefining myself as a man, as a person as a son, brother, father, grandfather. Along the way I made bad mistakes in judgment. But as I always tell my kids it is important to be accountable for the things you do. From my experiences I have learned and grown to understand who I am and what defines me. I am blessed for the lessons learned and further blessed by getting engaged to a wonderful woman who fully allows me to be me. A job doesn’t define me …how much I make doesn’t define me, It is me who defines me. So I wish you continued success on your self awareness journey it is a journey well spent.
Love to hear that you are keeping such a positive attitude in moving forward with life. I was also bullied as a child and honestly believe it made me a better person as a result. I cherish the people I love more and value those little happy moments daily. Your life is what you make of it and even the worst experiences can shape you into a more loving, confident person!