Some People Come In Your Life As A Blessing, Some Come As Lessons

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There are so many things that are important in life to know and understand all types of people, knowing how to read people, knowing how to differentiate between being with the wrong people and the right people. It is super important to surround yourself always with different types of people and get to know their mind set and to know their personality, traits, attitudes, actions, their trail of thought about things. Its so imperative to know this. Some people come into your life as blessings because they are the right type of people to be with who are true to you, who would never lie to you, who would never betray you and your trust, someone who will always be your backbone, someone who will be part of your life and stay their with no strings attached. Some people come into your life as lessons. Sometimes friendships, relationships, do not pan out to be the way you would have expected to, and that is a learning experience on seeing people’s true colors to come out and see how a personality, attitude and character come into place with time. With time you will get to know people, and some people have the gift to read people instantly and know what they are all about with certain keywords, eye, facial movements, and body language.

Physical movements and the eyes tell a lot about a person and some have the ability to look at people in the eye and see things others cannot see. We all need to be educated on how to read people and how to be good judges of character. It will help you in the long run in future friendships, relationships, and everything else. It is very important to be careful who your trust and give your whole heart, mind and soul to. We can easily be fooled by people who have the ability to say things that we want to hear and try to convince us and persuade us to change our minds and mindsets, but that is something that is very tricky. Learning valuable lessons in life is important. It helps us grow, it helps us prepare ourselves for endless possibilities, and new things in life we have yet to experience. There are all types of people in this world, there are so many personality traits, so many things that are into the factor. The more were educated, the more were capable of handling people, handling vulnerable stages in ones life. We need to learn to not trust easily and we need to learn to not give in 100% unless your 100% certain and sure about what you do in life. Sometimes life can throw hard balls, but we need to be strong and we need to close a chapter in our life and start another.

Life is too short. Things happen for a reason, everything in life that happens are for a valid reason, people come in and out of your life and that is another reason. Were all on our own separate journey’s in life and most importantly who we take with us on that journey and who we associate with. Be happy, positive, confident, optimistic in life. If things are rocky, unstable and miserable for you now, always remember that everything works out in the end. God is always there to protect us and to watch over us. Learning valuable lessons in life and acting on it is something that will benefit you in future. Although sometimes people do not think it will, when you least expect it, something great will come out of everything with patience, perseverance, and determination. When we expect it, and when we keep doing that, it sometimes will take longer and it will not be the result you were looking for. don’t have too many expectations, don’t jinx yourself, don’t over exert yourself with things. Let the right people come naturally. Eventually God will place you with the right crowd, and things will make sense.

I know that sometimes things do not make sense at all with how life is and how people are altogether, we need to focus on the blessings in our lives and then deal with our lessons. Make the impossible, possible, with no regrets, no turning back and just do what is best for you and do what you can to pursue your own happiness and your own dreams and wishes. It will come true. Where there is a will, there is a way for everything. Try it out, you will see the difference in no time. Do not worry, be happy and get on track with life.

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  4. Even the ones that come as lessons are blessings! We learn and grow…
    As a Transitions Coach specializing in Divorce, this is a very important concept that helps people get through the challenges…

  10. That is the truth ! 🙂 We don’t always see the reason, especially if it is not to our liking..but you know what? Down the road…we see it was for the good………or we learned something or grew up just a tad more…..

    Thanks for stopping by my blog so I could find yours………

  17. blessings and lessons are one and the same. but people who are blessings are allowed to stay….people who are lessons sometimes must go. 🙂

  22. Your words remind me of a beautiful Verse of Poetry !
    O breeze, my story quietly share,
    My heart’s secrets, to whoever you care.
    Tell not to upset or bring sorrow,
    Share them with a heart that’s aware.
    Thanks for sharing ..
    Vzzy

  23. Thanks for sharing!

    I hear your message of positivity through acceptance, and want to share an experience with empowerment and manifestation. One of the best things my sisters did for me was sit me down and ask what I would like with the future situation. In this case, I had gone through a breakup from my 10 year relationship. We had been engaged half that time, and I was feeling lost and heartbroken. On their advice, I made a list of qualities I wanted from my next man, my husband. I wanted a family man, someone with logic and humor, someone with whom the chemistry was strong enough to keep a commitment (my other one cheated on me – once a cheater, always a cheater). I listed those things important to me. Someone with a job, a place of his own…So that when I met him, I could see that Bill fit the dream. He’s since encouraged me to successfully open my own business doing what I want. He went to massage school with me and shared my career. He is a huge support in my business and he’s the key to our household functioning and our 8 year old having consistency through the week. He’s my Rock and my life was forever changed in meeting the man I’d hoped for. It was seemingly easy as long as I’ve been focused and on a good path.

    May you manifest what you want in your own world.

  26. First, thanks for taking the time to explore my Blog.
    You made some good points here, it’s good to remember that God is in control of our education… what we choose to learn is up to us.

  31. Even though my blog deals with business related items, I have had many dealings with individuals that have put on airs and tried to present themselves in a positive light when in reality, their main focus was to cheat, lie, and steal their way to the top of the corporate ladder. In your post, you said that God will protect us and while that is very true, he also lovingly allows us to go through times of trials and testing so that ultimately, our faith in Him grows and becomes our top priority.
    Thank you for the thought provoking post, and also thank you for following my blog.

  32. Many good insights here! Life is hard to understand sometimes and the Bible says that we will not have all the answers here on Earth. But if we trust HIM to lead us, He will…and in all the right directions! Thank you for visiting me so that I could visit you!

  42. Were: past tense of ‘are’
    We’re: we are

    There: opposite of here
    Their: belonging to or associated with the noun mentioned before; a modifier before a noun

    #justsaying

  43. Thank you for posting this. I was just thinking about someone who came into my life briefly and it was someone I didn’t really want to see right now, so I was thinking about why these things happen.
    You’ve made a great point- it’s good to be able to see not only what’s good for us, but also what we don’t want.

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  53. Thank you for liking my blog post. I encourage you to follow my blog! I’m new to this, and am enjoying it very much.

    This post was very inspiring. It’s so easy to “change” so that someone will like you. It’s difficult to stay true to yourself. I accept the challenge to just be me. And to love every moment of it!

  60. God punishes certain men like us that are hoping to meet a good woman to share our life with, and can never find it. But yet he will bless others to find love and happiness with the right woman, and with so many very nasty women that are out there these days certainly makes it very difficult for us good men that would really know how to treat a woman real well. Women are without a doubt very dysfunctional today which makes it very scary for us men that are very innocent, and many of us would know how to be very committed with just one good woman that can make us very happy since we’re all alone now and have no one.

    • Whoa! God does not punish that way. If you can’t find a loving woman, maybe you’re not looking in the right places. Your first love should be God. From what you’ve written, I don’t think you like Him very much. Once you love God and have Him in your heart, it’s easier to see the love in everyone else. There are a lot of dysfunctional people out there, not just women.
      Go to church; find one that preaches salvation and accept Him into your heart. Then pray to the Lord for help in finding the right woman for you. The next step will be the hardest–be patient. Sara was almost 100 before she got pregnant with her son that God had promised her. Don’t you think that as she ticked off the years, she questioned God? God may have a reason for making you wait. Trust Him. Talk to Him. God will answer back.

    • Men are also very dysfunctional today, which makes it hard for many women I know looking for good men. My husband is one in a million. As quirkywritingcorner says, maybe you’re not looking in the right places. One persistently single guy I know has a lot of good women slip through his fingers because his world revolves around himself and he’s immature in a lot of ways, making it hard for good women to seriously consider him as marriage material. He wonders why he is single and where all the good women are. The answer is: you’ve seen them. You’ve been friends with them. Yet, you have your own issues to deal with before you could have a good marriage. God likes to give things to people when they’re ready. Maybe if your single God is trying to teach you something before He gives you your wife. 🙂

      • It is most of the women these days that are very Dysfunctional since many of them really think their God’s gift to men now that many of them are very high maintenance, independent, selfish, spoiled, greedy, picky, and very money hungry, which is the real reason why many of us Good single men Can’t meet a Good one at all, and the real Good old fashioned women of years ago were certainly the Best compared to today. And many women now want the Best and won’t settle for Less. Most of the women in the old days along with their men really had to Struggle to make ends meat, so there wasn’t such a thing as a high maintenance woman back then which they Never knew the meaning of it.

        • Well, I hope to encourage you. There are just as many good women out there as there are good men. I know many of my low-maintenance, good girlfriends who are just waiting for a good guy to come along.
          Just as many men are dysfunctional today, though. So many don’t have jobs, don’t take responsibility for their actions, etc. That’s what I hear my friends saying. 🙂

      • Well God has certainly Blessed so many others with the Gift of life but now with so many Career women nowadays that are very high maintenance, independent, selfish, spoiled, greedy, picky, narcissists, and very power money hungry which since the women of today are Nothing at all like Most of the real good old fashioned women were that were the Best of all since they really did put these women today to real shame.

  62. With being a nurse I’ve met a ton of people, and I considered them all blessings. I’ve had my fair share of “lessons”. You can be pretty sure that I was not happy about many of them.
    One thing you will notice about people is that those who are basically honest, see others as basically honest; those that lie think everyone else does, too. I trust in God to sort it all out.

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  65. Like the post because I agree. People come into our lives for a reason. An example is the young lady I wrote about today. It seems that one of the reasons was for me to meet a lady I would gladly have as a daughter. An other was so that I might be able to be an advocate for her, too. Thanks, also, for following my blog. When you are trying to change the world for people you care about, every bit counts.

  66. Hi its very true…people come into our lives for many reasons and we have to have the discernment to know their purposes in our lives..great topic…

  67. Good post. First of all, before I comment, thanks for the follow to fatihsighanddiy. I agree we need to learn to read people better. Many a person has been led astray because they are so vulnerable. However, I do not believe “everything happens for a reason”. That God “allow” certain situations, yes, and that we can learn from them, yes.But if we believe everything happens for a reason, then we will use our logical to find the reason, rather than to trust God whether we find the reason or not. . Just my two cents.

    Glad to have “met” you. God Bless.

  69. Talinorfali, enjoyed your post and agree that people come into our lives for a reason. Thanks for the reminder! Thank you also for your follow! Shall watch yours with interest too!

  70. These are things I’ve known intellectually for a long time, but it was only in the past decade that I’ve seen the lessons clearly. I was so emotionally wounded 13 years ago, I ignored my instincts about some one and lost myself for a year. I did learn important lessons: Everything does happen for a reason and things do work out for the best, because God has a plan. Thank you for sharing this comfort and wisdom and for following me at “Anything is Possible.”

  81. Talin, I love your site quote “…the teacher is always quiet during the test” – As a teacher and one who has had many blessings and lessons – the quote and post speak volumes. Good luck to you in your future writing endeavors. Thanks for the follow. gdf

  82. You know that saying: “Boys marry girls like their mothers, and girls marry boys like their fathers”? I think your blog has a lot to add about this saying. Because it’s not true. Both my husband and I married people opposite of our parents, because of our “lessons” with them. We knew what we didn’t want. So, as a modified saying, I would say “Boys look at girls in comparison with their mothers, and girls look at boys in comparison with their fathers.” 🙂

  83. Your line, “…we need to focus on the lessons in our lives and then deal with our lessons.” made me realize we are on the same wavelength with our blogs. Deep appreciation for following Clump A Day!

  84. True as what you had wrote, an eye to eye in conversation is beneficial. For like you, I believe that thru countenance we can able to read the personality of a person. I had proven it thru out my life. Nice write ups, thanks for sharing.

  87. An interesting read, Talin. I’ve found myself thinking back “I wish I never knew xxx” but then you can think in other directions and realise what you’ve learned from knowing them. I believe very much along the lines of what you’ve written here, agree much. HAPPY NEW YEAR! 🙂

  91. Well for many of you that were Very Blessed to find Real Love which you should be Very Thankful for what you have since many of us were Never That Blessed Unfortunately.

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