There are so many things that are important in life to know and understand all types of people, knowing how to read people, knowing how to differentiate between being with the wrong people and the right people. It is super important to surround yourself always with different types of people and get to know their mind set and to know their personality, traits, attitudes, actions, their trail of thought about things. Its so imperative to know this. Some people come into your life as blessings because they are the right type of people to be with who are true to you, who would never lie to you, who would never betray you and your trust, someone who will always be your backbone, someone who will be part of your life and stay their with no strings attached. Some people come into your life as lessons. Sometimes friendships, relationships, do not pan out to be the way you would have expected to, and that is a learning experience on seeing people’s true colors to come out and see how a personality, attitude and character come into place with time. With time you will get to know people, and some people have the gift to read people instantly and know what they are all about with certain keywords, eye, facial movements, and body language.
Physical movements and the eyes tell a lot about a person and some have the ability to look at people in the eye and see things others cannot see. We all need to be educated on how to read people and how to be good judges of character. It will help you in the long run in future friendships, relationships, and everything else. It is very important to be careful who your trust and give your whole heart, mind and soul to. We can easily be fooled by people who have the ability to say things that we want to hear and try to convince us and persuade us to change our minds and mindsets, but that is something that is very tricky. Learning valuable lessons in life is important. It helps us grow, it helps us prepare ourselves for endless possibilities, and new things in life we have yet to experience. There are all types of people in this world, there are so many personality traits, so many things that are into the factor. The more were educated, the more were capable of handling people, handling vulnerable stages in ones life. We need to learn to not trust easily and we need to learn to not give in 100% unless your 100% certain and sure about what you do in life. Sometimes life can throw hard balls, but we need to be strong and we need to close a chapter in our life and start another.
Life is too short. Things happen for a reason, everything in life that happens are for a valid reason, people come in and out of your life and that is another reason. Were all on our own separate journey’s in life and most importantly who we take with us on that journey and who we associate with. Be happy, positive, confident, optimistic in life. If things are rocky, unstable and miserable for you now, always remember that everything works out in the end. God is always there to protect us and to watch over us. Learning valuable lessons in life and acting on it is something that will benefit you in future. Although sometimes people do not think it will, when you least expect it, something great will come out of everything with patience, perseverance, and determination. When we expect it, and when we keep doing that, it sometimes will take longer and it will not be the result you were looking for. don’t have too many expectations, don’t jinx yourself, don’t over exert yourself with things. Let the right people come naturally. Eventually God will place you with the right crowd, and things will make sense.
I know that sometimes things do not make sense at all with how life is and how people are altogether, we need to focus on the blessings in our lives and then deal with our lessons. Make the impossible, possible, with no regrets, no turning back and just do what is best for you and do what you can to pursue your own happiness and your own dreams and wishes. It will come true. Where there is a will, there is a way for everything. Try it out, you will see the difference in no time. Do not worry, be happy and get on track with life.
As you said Where there is a will, there is a way for everything… Be Happy
I find this has been so true in my life. My forever people are still around but some people come for a reason and some for a season. Nice post.
Some People Come In Your Life As A Blessing, Some Come As Lessons… And Some Come As Hideous Nuisances… LOL!
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great words of wisdom and if you are not careful when the people is in and out your life you just might learn something!:-)
Thanks for stopping by my blog, gave me the opportunity to find yours. Great post!
Someone once told me that people come into our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. I have found that to be true for me.
That is the truth !
We don’t always see the reason, especially if it is not to our liking..but you know what? Down the road…we see it was for the good………or we learned something or grew up just a tad more…..
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thanks for sharing
it helped me a lot.
Thanks for stopping by and following my blog! I do believe that things happen for a reason, good and bad, and wholeheartedly agree that we are here to learn many lessons in our lifetime…
Very true. Sometimes it’s hard to understand why things happen.
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beautiful post – so true.
namaste,
laurie
blessings and lessons are one and the same. but people who are blessings are allowed to stay….people who are lessons sometimes must go.
Thanks for stopping by my sight and liking, “Send a little love my way.” I enjoyed reading your post and ideas.
Always look for the Blessings, always look for the good.
Be happy and focus on feeling as good as you can every day.
That’s why I like rednecks. If anything, they’re unpretentious.
And thanks for visiting my blog.
Thanks for sharing!
” I Believe,everything happens for a reason,in your life”.
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Your words remind me of a beautiful Verse of Poetry !
O breeze, my story quietly share,
My heart’s secrets, to whoever you care.
Tell not to upset or bring sorrow,
Share them with a heart that’s aware.
Thanks for sharing ..
Vzzy
Thanks for sharing!
I hear your message of positivity through acceptance, and want to share an experience with empowerment and manifestation. One of the best things my sisters did for me was sit me down and ask what I would like with the future situation. In this case, I had gone through a breakup from my 10 year relationship. We had been engaged half that time, and I was feeling lost and heartbroken. On their advice, I made a list of qualities I wanted from my next man, my husband. I wanted a family man, someone with logic and humor, someone with whom the chemistry was strong enough to keep a commitment (my other one cheated on me – once a cheater, always a cheater). I listed those things important to me. Someone with a job, a place of his own…So that when I met him, I could see that Bill fit the dream. He’s since encouraged me to successfully open my own business doing what I want. He went to massage school with me and shared my career. He is a huge support in my business and he’s the key to our household functioning and our 8 year old having consistency through the week. He’s my Rock and my life was forever changed in meeting the man I’d hoped for. It was seemingly easy as long as I’ve been focused and on a good path.
May you manifest what you want in your own world.
Thanks for following my blog, Talin, and for the wise and kind words here, I’m glad I visited!
So true, so true! Also, thanks for following my blog!
First, thanks for taking the time to explore my Blog.
You made some good points here, it’s good to remember that God is in control of our education… what we choose to learn is up to us.
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But it becomes difficult to take this fact!
I love your blog. You seem to take the words,right out of my mouth.
I really got a lot out of your post today! Thank you for visiting me, so I could visit you! Take care and God bless you!
my gosh! who ever can’t relate to this hasn’t seen it coming yet! brilliance, especially the physicality part! great!
Even though my blog deals with business related items, I have had many dealings with individuals that have put on airs and tried to present themselves in a positive light when in reality, their main focus was to cheat, lie, and steal their way to the top of the corporate ladder. In your post, you said that God will protect us and while that is very true, he also lovingly allows us to go through times of trials and testing so that ultimately, our faith in Him grows and becomes our top priority.
Thank you for the thought provoking post, and also thank you for following my blog.
Many good insights here! Life is hard to understand sometimes and the Bible says that we will not have all the answers here on Earth. But if we trust HIM to lead us, He will…and in all the right directions! Thank you for visiting me so that I could visit you!
Great post on relationships. God has a plan for all the people that are in our lives. Thanks for liking my post.
Rolain
Great post! I very much enjoyed reading this! TY
Thank you for posting this was really great!
after I read this I thought, maybe we are twins separated at birth. lovely, so lovely!
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Well said! I totally agree that things happen for a reason and that God orchestrates everything. Thanks for the encouragement!
loved this post………..
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Thank you for posting this. I was just thinking about someone who came into my life briefly and it was someone I didn’t really want to see right now, so I was thinking about why these things happen.
You’ve made a great point- it’s good to be able to see not only what’s good for us, but also what we don’t want.
Sometimes the oldest sayings are the truest. Thanks for the positive post.
Hi Talin. Thank you for following my blog and liking it. I will be following yours as well and re-visiting.
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Thanks for visiting my blog Talin – enjoyed reading your thoughts here.
Hi Talin. Thanks for liking “My Confession.” I’m glad we’re connected.
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Thank you for following my blog and your post is most beautifully written and well said.
It’s a hard lessons to learn, but you have to accept that every chapter in your life has been written for a reason. Once you do it’s much easier to move on.
Thank you for liking my blog post. I encourage you to follow my blog! I’m new to this, and am enjoying it very much.
This post was very inspiring. It’s so easy to “change” so that someone will like you. It’s difficult to stay true to yourself. I accept the challenge to just be me. And to love every moment of it!
It’s a great post, hope to learn more about people, let me know when you have that written! will be here to read it
Great post and thanks for visiting and following mine. I look forward to sharing.
Jane
The eyes are the window to our soul. I found what you wrote to be so true. I enjoyed reading your blog
Thanks for following me. I like your positive attitude and sense of possibility. Keep writing.